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Writer's pictureJulia Mihaylov

Dear Mom-to-Be: The Unspoken Reality of Hospital Births You Need to Know

Hey Amazing Mamas, I know you are immersed in those baby dreams, but we need to open your eyes to the reality. Stepping into the hospital for your birth? There is some crucial stuff they are not telling you about hospital birth, and it is high time you know.


Woman having a C-section in the hospital
Woman giving birth in the hospital

The Hospital Birth: Not as Simple as It Seems

So, you are picturing a laid-back birthing experience at the hospital, right? Well, hold on. The reality is that hospitals often have their own game plan, not tailored to what is best for your birth. There are routines, medical interventions, statistical ranges, and deadlines. But hey, you are not a statistic. Your body is unique, and it is time to ensure your birth happens on your terms.

Asking the Tough Questions: You're the Star of This Show

Picture this: the hospital has a one-size-fits-all plan that's been around forever. No room for individuality. But what about your birth preferences? It is totally fine not to follow their rules blindly. Their plan might not be the best fit for you. Time to ask questions, speak your mind, and make sure your birth plan aligns with your dream birthing experience.

Birth Trauma: A Scenario You Want to Dodge

Ever heard of birth trauma? It is like landing a role in a bad movie you never auditioned for. Walking into the hospital without a clue might complicate things more than you would like. The truth is, the system might push for unnecessary medical interventions, leading to pain relief you didn't need, and potentially ending in a C-section. The hospital environment can sometimes make your birthing journey more of a struggle than it needs to be.

Knowledge Is Your Superpower: Embrace It

Okay, mama, here is the deal: knowledge is your superpower. The hospital might not be the ideal birth haven, but armed with some know-how, you can navigate it like a pro. Take an antenatal or hypnobirthing course, question what you are offered, and only agree to things when you are sure they are right for you. Once you have conquered a hospital birth with a positive experience, you will feel like an absolute warrior!

A Little Reality Check: Standing Up for Your Birth Plan

Big shout-out to your birth preferences! It is not just a piece of paper; it is YOUR game plan. Many moms have seen their plans tossed aside by medical professionals who did not bother to read or follow them. Don't let that happen to you. Demand more than a quick glance—make sure they truly understand what you want. After all, you are the star of your birth.

Your Body, Your Rockstar: Don't Forget It

Your body is crafting something incredible, and it is high time everyone (including you) acknowledges who is in charge. Sometimes, hospitals treat birthing like a puzzle to solve, not the natural phenomenon it truly is. Your body is the rockstar here, and it deserves the spotlight.

In Conclusion: Mama, Let's Keep It Real

Hey mama-to-be, it is time for a heart-to-heart. The hospital scene might not be all sunshine and rainbows, but with a bit of prep, a sprinkle of courage, and some straight talk, you can shape your birthing experience just the way you want it. Let's keep it real, superhero mama! 💪🌟 Unsure of all the birth essentials you need to know of? Well, you are in luck! I have prepared a FREE E-Book for you with your Birth Essentials, to get you ready for your Positive Birth! Receive your free E-Book via the link below: https://dashboard.mailerlite.com/forms/343044/99196326438241951/share

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